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THE RUN

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One step at a time. Start and keep going.  It might look hard, tough and confusing, but the law of process says as long as you don't stop going in the right direction, you still stand a chance of getting there. Not stopping is part of the process and process is a law. The only catastrophe is if you are journeying in the wrong direction, then you end nowhere. Before you bake the bread, learn the recipe. The ingredients needed, how to mix and other steps needed to get the banana bread or the kind of bread you want. Learning always precede doing. If you miss the learning part, then you miss it all. Be an apprentice, read, watch others do it; get the basic know how and then start. If you learn in what you are naturally gifted in, it becomes easy to learn. This is a true story. A young man that had no interest in mechanic work was sent to a mechanic workshop to learn. He kept skipping work, running off and didn't learn anything. His master got tired of flogging him for l...

FRIENDSHIP ISSUES

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Let's briefly discuss a subject that appears simple but not as simple as it looks.  Simply defined by me : friends are people you move with in your inner circle. They are different from family or staff, they are people you usually call your "homies or buddies...". These are people you share your heart with, chat with and often spend time with. Actually, you need friends in life for several reasons : love, understanding, mutual care and help, connections and to help one another rise in life. Take note of the last point. Friends must help you rise, not press you down. Life often throw them at you as you go about your daily activities. Unfortunately, if you are not wise and you make or keep friends without balancing them with your vision in life or are just emotional about it, you may end up having lots of them but getting nowhere in life. In fact, the wrong ones will ensure you never rise. Let's break it down.  First of all, you must always make this a yards...